You love your children fiercely.
But sometimes, in the hardest moments when they're melting down, pushing back, or seeking your attention for the hundredth time, you hear her voice coming out of your mouth.
Your mother's voice. Your grandmother's voice.
The impatience. The sharpness. The reactivity you swore you'd never pass on.
And afterward, the guilt sits heavy in your chest.
"I'm becoming exactly what I didn't want to be."
Whether your toddler is having a meltdown in Target, your kindergartener won't listen, or your tween is pushing every boundary, you know these years matter. Their brains are developing. Their sense of safety is forming. And you're shaping how they'll see themselves and relationships for the rest of their lives.
The pressure feels enormous. Because it is.
You've read the parenting books. You know what you're "supposed" to do. But when your nervous system is activated, and your child is dysregulated, all that knowledge disappears, and you're left feeling like you're failing the people you love most.
Here's what you need to know:
Your childhood experiences didn't just shape your memories; they shaped your brain, your nervous system, and your automatic responses to stress.
The patterns you're repeating aren't character flaws. They're learned responses from a brain that was trying to survive.
And here's the beautiful truth: What was learned can be unlearned.
When you understand how your past shows up in your present, you gain the power to choose differently.
Not perfectly. But intentionally.
And when you change, your children change.

Imagine this...
Your four-year-old has a meltdown in the middle of the grocery store. but instead of feeling your chest tighten and your anger rise, you pause. You breathe. You see their big feelings for what they are... just big feelings. Not a reflection of your parenting. Not something you need to control or fix right away.
You stay calm. You stay present. And your child feels it.
Later that evening, you lose your patience. You snap. But this time, something is different. You don't spiral into shame. You don't avoid your child's eyes. Instead, you repair. You say, "I'm sorry. I love you. Let's try again." And you mean it.
Your child looks at you with relief, not fear.
Over time, you notice the shift. Your kids come to you when they're upset instead of hiding. They seek you out for comfort. The tension in your home softens. You're not walking on eggshells anymore, waiting for the next explosion.
And the most surprising part? You start to feel different, too.
Lighter. More confident. Less afraid of messing up.
Because you finally understand that healing yourself and mothering well aren't two separate journeys. They're on the same path.
This is what becomes possible when you do the inside work.
We are the mothers who will not stand by.
We refuse to watch our children suffer in cycles that we have the power to break.
It ends with me.
She is not passive. She is powerful.
We embody the healing we want our children to inherit.
This is a movement of women reclaiming our role as healers, leaders, and protectors of this generation and the ones to come.
This is Inside-Out Mothering™
If you're reading this and something inside you is saying yes , this is for you.


Simple brain and attachment teaching (no overwhelming jargon, just clear "ohhh that makes sense" moments)
Real-life discussion with other moms who get it
Gentle at-home practices you can use immediately with your kids
Inside-Out Mothering™ is an intimate, in-person experience where you'll understand how your childhood shaped your mothering patterns and gain practical, brain-based strategies to respond to your children with calm presence instead of reactivity.
You'll create a secure, loving relationship where your kids naturally turn to you, while you heal the wounds from your own past.
This isn't a parenting class where you learn techniques and go home alone to figure it out.
This is a circle of mothers doing the deep work together.
And if you have young children right now, ages 3 to 12, you're in the most powerful window. Their brains are still developing. Their sense of safety is still forming. What you heal in yourself now shapes who they become.
Held. Seen. Supported.
You don't have to wait until they're grown to break the cycle. You can do it now, while it matters most.
Each Tuesday morning for 8 weeks, you'll gather with a small group of 8 to 10 moms in a cozy space in Westlake Village. We'll sit together, share our stories, and do the work that changes everything.
Every session includes:
Understanding why your story matters and how your past shows up in your present
Learning what your child's brain needs to feel safe, seen, and secure
Discovering how to pause when big feelings take over (yours and theirs)
Practicing repair that builds trust instead of chasing perfection
Whether they're 3 or 12, naming helps their developing brain make sense of big emotions
Connecting before correcting so your child actually listens
Making sense of your story with kindness, not shame
Creating a new legacy that ends the cycle for good


This is an intimate, interactive experience where each mom's presence matters and breakthroughs happen in real time, in community.
Because we build on each session together as a group and the work cannot be replicated through recordings, consistent attendance is essential. I know emergencies happen.
This course is for moms ready to commit to themselves, show up fully, and practice boundary setting that will transform their mothering.
If you're waiting for the "perfect time" when life slows down, that time doesn't exist.
The perfect time is when you decide the cycle ends with you.

Here’s what you get for $400:
The INSIDE-OUT MOTHERING is 8 Weekly In-Person Sessions every Tuesday from 9:00 to 10:30 starting February 17th.
We meet in a warm, inviting space where you can sink into the couch or grab a big floor pillow.
Coffee and pastries provided at our first session.
This is your space to be held, not judged.
Custom Workbook (Value $47) A beautifully designed workbook created specifically for this course, with reflection prompts and exercises for each week. This is where your insights live.
BONUS: 1:1 Post-Program Coaching Call with Amelia (Value $125) A private 30-minute session after the 8 weeks to integrate your transformation, address your specific questions, and explore if ongoing support is right for you.
BONUS: Mother-Child Connection Guide: How You Learned to Connect and How That Shapes Your Mothering (Value $27)
Total Value: $199 in bonuses alone
Your investment: Just $400 for the complete 8-week experience.
This is not covered by insurance because it is a workshop and not therapy.
I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in daughters raised by emotionally unavailable mothers.
For over two decades, I've sat with women who are carrying the weight of their childhood into their mothering. Women who love their children but find themselves repeating the patterns they swore they'd never pass on.
I know this work intimately because I've lived it. But I made a different choice. As a young mother, I did my own healing work. I found an emotionally safe woman to trusçt. I looked at my story with honesty and compassion. And I discovered that when I changed, my children changed.
Today, I'm a mom to 10 adult children who are my joy and my life. They don't fear me. They seek me out.
The cycle ended with me. And it can end with you too.
I created Inside-Out Mothering™ because I know that moms need more than parenting techniques.
They need:
A safe space to heal the wounds that drive their reactions.
Community.
To be held while they do the hardest work of their lives.
This program weaves together everything I've learned professionally (I discovered Dr. Daniel Siegel's groundbreaking work on brain development and attachment during my training) with everything I've lived personally.
It's not therapy. It's a movement of mothers choosing to be the change.
And I'm here to hold space for you while you do it.

You have children ages 3 to 12 and know these formative years matter
You're tired of repeating patterns you swore you'd never pass on
You've read the parenting books, but still react instead of respond when you're triggered
You want your children to run toward you, not away from you
You're willing to do your own healing work, not just learn techniques
You're ready to commit to showing up for yourself and this transformation
You're currently in crisis and need more intensive therapeutic support
You're not ready to look at your own story
You're still blaming others and not ready to take responsibility for your healing
You're looking for quick fixes or someone to tell you exactly what to do
You can't commit to consistent attendance (this work happens in real time, together)
Stop yelling and start responding with calm, even when triggered
Break the patterns you swore you'd never repeat
Create secure attachment so your kids run TOWARD you, not away
Experience a peaceful home where connection replaces conflict
Become the mother you've always wanted to be
THE FAULTS OF THE PAST (NOT YOUR FAULTS!) ARE CLOUDING YOUR OPINION OF YOURSELF
YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE IF YOU WANT TO:
Step 1: Click the button below to secure your spot
Step 2: You'll receive a welcome email with all the details
Step 3: Show up on February 17th, ready to begin
We meet every Tuesday from 9:00 to 10:30 AM in Westlake Village, California.
One powerful choice to be the change.
Space is limited for 8-10 women.
Investment: $400
When spots fill, they're gone.


Every day you wait is another day of:
Repeating patterns that hurt your connection
Your children internalizing your dysregulation
Missing precious moments you can't get back
The cycle continuing into another generation
The window is closing:
Only 10 spots available (intimate group essential for deep work)
Starts February 17th
Your children are only this age once
Inside-Out Mothering is a small, intimate, in-person experience designed to create safety, trust, and meaningful connection. To protect the integrity of the group and honor the space being held, please review the following:
Because this program is limited to 10 participants and relies on consistent participation, registration fees are non-refundable once payment is received.
We require a minimum of 8 participants for the group to run. In the unlikely event that the program is canceled due to low enrollment, you will receive a full refund or may choose to transfer your registration to a future cohort.
By enrolling, you are committing to the full 8-week experience. Consistent attendance is important, as each week builds on the last and supports the group's safety and connection.
Please check your calendar to ensure you can attend all 8 Tueday sessions (9:00–10:30 AM), beginning February 17, before registering.
If you have any questions or need clarity before enrolling, I warmly invite you to reach out at [email protected]

The INSIDE-OUT MOTHERING is 8 Weekly In-Person Sessions every Tuesday from 9:00 to 10:30 starting February 17th.
We meet in a warm, inviting space where you can sink into the couch or grab a big floor pillow.
Coffee and pastries provided at our first session. This is your space to be held, not judged.
Custom Workbook (Value $47) A beautifully designed workbook created specifically for this course, with reflection prompts and exercises for each week. This is where your insights live.
BONUS: 1:1 Post-Program Coaching Call with Amelia (Value $125) A private 30-minute session after the 8 weeks to integrate your transformation, address your specific questions, and explore if ongoing support is right for you.
BONUS: Mother-Child Connection Guide: How You Learned to Connect and How That Shapes Your Mothering (Value $27)
Total Value: $199 in bonuses alone
Your investment: Just $400 for the complete 8-week experience.
This is not covered by insurance because it is a workshop and not therapy.
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