Man holding a smiling face photo over his own face, symbolizing hidden emotions, silent struggles, and the pressure to appear happy.

Holiday Smiles, Hidden Pain

December 05, 20251 min read

Holiday Smiles, Hidden Pain

It’s the season of joy, togetherness, and sparkle—or at least that’s what we’re told.

But for many people, December isn’t light and bright. It’s heavy. Complicated. Exhausting.

Maybe you’ve been smiling through the gatherings, checking all the boxes, but inside you feel numb. Or anxious. Or just bone-deep tired. Maybe you’re grieving something no one else can see, a dream that didn’t come to life, a loss that never fully healed, a childhood that still whispers through holiday songs and scented candles.

If this is you, you’re not alone. And you’re not flawed.

Man holding a smiling face photo over his own face, symbolizing hidden emotions, silent struggles, and the pressure to appear happy.

High-functioning sadness is real. So is quiet grief, silent overwhelm, and the deep ache of trying to hold it all together while the world says “be merry.”

You don’t need to pretend.

This season doesn’t have to look like a Hallmark movie to be meaningful. You’re allowed to honor what hurts. You’re allowed to set boundaries. You’re allowed to care for yourself with as much tenderness as you show others.

Therapy can be a soft landing place when everything feels loud and hard. Whether you’re navigating grief, anxiety, burnout, or just the ache of “I don’t feel like myself,” this is a good time to start.

The end of the year doesn’t have to be about pushing through. It can be about coming home to yourself.

You deserve to feel held, even if the world feels heavy.
Let’s talk.

Amelia Mora Mars is a ketamine-assisted psychotherapist in Westlake Village, California.

Amelia Mora Mars

Amelia Mora Mars is a ketamine-assisted psychotherapist in Westlake Village, California.

Instagram logo icon
Back to Blog