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But part of you is terrified of becoming your mother.
You swore you’d never repeat the past.
And yet…
The fear is still there.
The doubt.
The ache that won’t let go.
You’re exhausted from over-functioning.
From always being the strong one.
The one who holds it together—at the cost of your own heart.
You’ve tried therapy.
Read all the books.
Even taken medication.
But the ache remains.
It’s not your fault.
You think the problem is you.
That you’re too emotional.
Too needy.
Not doing enough.
But here’s the truth:
You were raised by someone emotionally unavailable.
So you learned to stay small, silent, and strong just to survive.
Now those patterns are trapped in your nervous system—quietly shaping your motherhood.
You’re not broken.
You’re unmothered.
And it’s time to heal.
Every time you lie awake worrying, you’ll mess up your family…
Every time you push your needs aside just to be “enough”…
Every time you hear your mother’s voice come out of your mouth…
That’s not failure.
That’s unhealed pain trying to protect you.
And yes—it’s emotional, generational, and spiritual.
But healing is possible. And you don’t have to fight alone.
It’s time to stop surviving and start transforming for your family, your legacy, and your soul.
I’m Amelia Mora Mars, LMFT, and Concierge Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapist.
I help women—especially daughters of emotionally unavailable mothers—break generational cycles of silence, shame, and emotional scarcity.
With ketamine-assisted therapy, we gently bypass the mental loops and reach the deeper truth inside:
Where your story lives.
Where the fear began.
Where the healing begins.
This isn’t just science.
This is sacred work.
And I walk every step with you—body, mind, and soul.
You stop living in fear of the past.
You connect to your daughter and your family with presence and peace.
You feel worthy of love, rest, and being mothered by you.
You don’t just heal for you. You heal for your future generations.
I won’t rush your healing. I won’t dismiss your pain.
And I won’t hand you another strategy to manage symptoms.
We go deeper. With warmth. With safety. With care.
Each session is curated for comfort with blankets, music, intention.
Each journey is followed by integration, so your transformation doesn’t just fade, it lasts.
Because the mother inside you...the one full of love, grace, and presence?
She’s not gone. She’s just buried.
And I know exactly how to help you find her again.
I'm a Christian therapist, mom of ten, and founder of Transformations Counseling in Westlake Village, California.
I specialize in helping women and men heal emotional wounds that traditional therapy hasn’t touched, especially those raised by emotionally unavailable moms..
Whether through faith-rooted talk therapy or deeper work with KAP, I create a safe space for you to reconnect with your voice, your story, and the truth of who God created you to be.
At Every Age, Stage & Phase of Motherhood
Whether you’re a…
• Pregnant mom anxiously awaiting your baby
• New mom battling postpartum, exhaustion, and overwhelm
• Stay-at-home mom feeling isolated and undervalued
• Working mom haunted by the voice that says you're not doing enough
• Empty nester unsure how to transition into what’s next
Whether you’re a…
• Woman who’s always been the emotional anchor for everyone else
• Mother who pushed down her own needs to hold the family together
• Faithful believer wondering, “Who am I, really?” beneath all the roles
• Daughter still shaped by a childhood of silence, chaos, or emotional neglect
• Mom watching time pass, realizing she must become the role model she never had
Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy offers more than relief—it provides revelation.
A space to meet God inwardly, hear what your soul has been trying to say, and begin again—from the inside out.
Ketamine is a dissociative anesthetic safely used since the 1970s on the battlefield and used extensively in operating and emergency rooms.
Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) is a deep psychotherapeutic process that can produce rapid improvement for many mental health conditions.
KAP can also be supportive for end-of-life care, existential crisis, and the emotional pain of infertility.
Ketamine is compatible with most other psychiatric medicines, and it can create powerful, sustained healing when medication and talk therapy alone haven’t worked.
Sessions last two to three hours and are focused on therapy that goes beneath the surface to understand root causes. Each treatment is followed by an integration session to explore all that came up during your journey.
When ketamine sessions are layered, the medicine has a cumulative effect, promoting neuroplasticity to disrupt negative thoughts, beliefs, and patterns that keep the brain stuck.
Because this medicine is a mind-altering substance, it is powerful in evoking peak experiences, deep insights, and sometimes spiritual crises.
I am present, ensuring you feel seen, supported, and safe. For many patients, much of their experiences with childhood trauma were invalidated, unseen, or when they were unprotected.
We believe that this new paradigm of healing leverages compassion and forgiveness.
Offers Hope Where Other Therapies Have Failed
Depression
Suicidal Ideation
Bipolar Depression
Infertility Depression
Mood Disorders
Childhood Trauma
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
Performance Anxiety
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Disordered Eating
Chronic Pain - Crohn's, Autoimmune, IBS
Existential Crisis
End of Life Support
I was severely depressed and chronically anxious. I tried a variety of alternatives, and I didn’t seem to be able to get out of the desperate state of trauma and sadness that I was in. I felt at the end of my rope. After a decade of suffering with several mental health issues, I feel now I can handle the ups and downs of life without the extreme reaction that I used to have.
It makes a huge difference to have a therapist like Amelia, who understands trauma and is compassionate and knowledgeable about this new and rewarding treatment.
I have found joy in living, which I still consider unreal sometimes.
LS, Travel Writer